There's a lot, eh?  The deal is with moderators, they all basically volunteered (at my request) to look after their respective forums.  They're not there to make sure you follow strict rules and crap like that.  If you need help, ask them.  They basically are there to help, and foster conversation.  Sure, there's a 'rule' or two in most forums.  Poetry - you have to keep it in your own thread, the inferno - no kiddie porn or useless spam, somehow I think we can all deal with this.  Feel free to say what you want, and express your opinions.  This isn't MY forum by any means.  I might have created the basic layout, but that's it.  It's a place for all of us, and for what we want.  If you think there should be another forum for something, say so... though please keep it sht that somebody besides you might actually post in. 

I suppose if the term moderators really bothers people, we could call them something different.  All I can think of is 'helpers', but that just sounds rather gay.  So, if you've got an idea, spit it out.