I just found out that my husband has been going to this place called bangme.net. It's like a hotornot kinda. That's not what makes me mad, what makes me mad is that a) He NEVER told me about it b) His profile says "single" and c) He left rather flirty messages to other girls. Things that he rarely says to me, his WIFE.
quote: Originally posted by: "well at least you know he has an issue. it's a good thing that you have found out about it before it was too late. "
Before it was too late? Dude, I've been with him 6 years, married 5, and have a 3 year old daughter with him. It's late. WAY late to be pulling bull**** on me.
quote: Originally posted by: " Before it was too late? Dude, I've been with him 6 years, married 5, and have a 3 year old daughter with him. It's late. WAY late to be pulling bull**** on me."
ahhh... ninjet... sadly a lot of young marrieds face this issues... I think I'd go rather easy on him unless you find out there is something more than just the internet going on. (Afterall doll... you do your fair share of cyber-flirting ) Sucks though, but keep your cool and make sure he's not 'really' cheating.
__________________
They say I'm disturbed. Well, of course I'm
disturbed. I mean, we're all disturbed. And if we're not, why not? Doesn't this
blend of blindness and blandness want to make you do something crazy? Then why
not do something crazy? It makes a helluva lot more sense than blowing your
fucking brains out. -Mark Hunter
quote: Originally posted by: " Before it was too late? Dude, I've been with him 6 years, married 5, and have a 3 year old daughter with him. It's late. WAY late to be pulling bull**** on me."
Well I didn't know that you were with this guy for so long and I didn't know that you had children by him. But this guy has an issue.
quote: Originally posted by: "ahhh... ninjet... sadly a lot of young marrieds face this issues... I think I'd go rather easy on him unless you find out there is something more than just the internet going on. (Afterall doll... you do your fair share of cyber-flirting ) Sucks though, but keep your cool and make sure he's not 'really' cheating."
Yes, you are right. And yes, this is the only thing going on. I'm not here 3 days out of the week cuz of school and he says he just got borded and thought it'd be fun to see how he did on one of those sites. He said he only made comments to others so that they'd give him a good vote or whatever. I'm not so nieve to think that he didn't enjoy his cyber-flirting, though. And, yes, I flirt, A LOT, but I don't EVER hide it from him. It's only here, not all over the net, and I never erase the history or **** to try to hide it from him. Whatever, at any rate I'm still major ****ed. I'm sure I'll get over it, but right now he knows he's feeling like **** so I'll let him enjoy that for a while.
My boyfriend and I are going through a similar situation.
I was just recently on hotornot.com and the fark.com personals. I use both of those sites to make friends with people, guys in particular. I recall that there was only one I did not tell about my bf, but all the rest I did tell and they didn't seem to have a problem with it. I had no intention of ever cheating with anyone from the site.
Some people are used to a certain amount of attention from the opposite sex. More specifically, multiple persons of the opposite sex. It doesn't mean they're going to cheat. It just means that they like to feel they are still desirable. YOU cannot give this feeling to your husband. Think of it as a security blanket for him. I wouldn't worry about it, but everyone is different.